Fashion Puzzle

Zaman sekarang nih kita tengok everyone nak berfesyen.  Macam-macam gaya fashion ada. Ada yang pandai berfashion and ramai juga yang tak pandai berfashion. Some other, prefer to be in safe zone and wear the normal casual style most of the time. Jeans dengan t-shirt plus sneekers or flip-flop. Eventhough I always see flip-flop macam something yang selekeh kalau nak pergi jalan-jalan dekat Times Square or Pavilion (for boys). Kalau setakat nak jalan keliling rumah boleh lah.

Now, it’s K-pop era. So mostly kebanyakan fashion ikut Korean artist. The slim fit pant, jacket, tunic, everything. Or even do hairstyle. Kadang-kadang tuh kelakar juga tengok some people who dresses like Korean but jadi lain. Almost like an alien. No offence but some people just copy-paste apa yang artist tuh pakai without measuring on their own.

Fashion is Daring. Whoever dare and bold enough to wear it, so wear it. That’s why ada yang kita tengok people wear variety of fashion and style, some even style yang kite tak terimagine pun. That’s kinda cool for people who made it. But ada juga yang jadi pelik. Fashion is like a puzzle. You fit in the wrong pieces, you fit the wrong fashion.

One of the fashion site that I like, which also belong to my DEARest friend. I guess I’ve found Malaysian Kurt Hummel minus the gay part. Hehe^^

This is my personal favourite. and btw, do click the pict for the fashion site.

To be honest, I'm not really a genius in fashion, so I just wear it safe. But I adore mereka-mereka yang berfashion.

2013 just another number

2012, 2013. It doesn’t matter to me. To me, semua tuh just sekadar nombor yang tak ada significant in my life. Sebelum habis 2012, people was like havoc cause someone said it’s gonna be Doomsday just because Mayan Calendar habis masa 21.12.12. Every year my calendar ends at 31.12, still tak kiamat-kiamat sampai sudah. But anyway, all that is crap. Nobody can predict when is The End, not even Rasulullah S.A.W.

Let the matter of Doomday rest in the Hand of God. I just wanna express what I felt when I saw how people celebrate new year. This is mainly about the Muslim brother and sister. About what the people around me masa celebrate new year. Semua tunggu countdown sampai 12 malam. Kononnya nak welcome 2013. Lepas tuh dekat Facebook, Twitter sibuk wishing everyone “Happy New Year”. Itu boleh tolerate lagi la. Ada yang excited terlebih pasal new year. Macam lah dapat apa-apa kalau celebrate new year.

Then yang almost semua orang akan buat. Azam Tahun Baru. Typical azam “Tahun nih aku nak jadi bdk baek”. Dude, you don’t need new year to change. You can even change at the very second you think. Mulalah berazam itu ini. Entah apa-apa entah. Semangat buat azam tahun baru sampai list berkilometer punya panjang tapi sampai ke tahun depannya pun tak berubah. Sama juga.

The most “AWESOME” way to celebrate New Year is pergi tempat-tempat macam Dataran Merdeka or KLCC then kumpul ramai-ramai. Campur laki perempuan. Terkinja-kinja lagi teruk dari Psy punya Horse Dance. Countdown pukul 12.00 malam then menjerit-jerit “Happy New Year!” Ada yang lagi extreme, dah lepas terkinja-kinja, masuk hotel, masuk semak dengan couple yang tak sah. Tunggu jer la bulan September nanti. Ada lah tuh kes buang baby.

Both Explode. Both go BOOM!. People go scream hysterically when both explode. Both got red sparkles. The different is that the firework red sparkles is from the gun powder, the bomb's red sparkle from the blood of the martyr.

Happy Family?

How do people define “Happy Family”? Husband and wife? Family yang ada banyak anak? Suami isteri yang tak pernah gaduh, yang asyik 24/7 loving couple ja? Benda nih is something subjective. Lain orang lain dia punya definition. My definition? What I picture of Happy Family is … erm, how to put this. To me, it doesn’t matter if the couple have many children or a single child or even no child at all. But of course, anak-anak tuh pengikat family. Walaupun ada anak yang perangai macam anak haram, dia still anak dalam family tuh. 

Husband and wife and yang loving couple 24/7 and tak gaduh, to me is not a Happy Family. IMPOSSIBLE for a couple untuk tak gaduh. Sometime, arguing could be a method to bond. Not that I’m saying you should gaduh for like everytime. But hey, loving 24/7 without arguing, how you gonna appreciate your mate? To girlfriend and boyfriend that always gaduh, tak payah nak couple-couple. Couple tuh untuk someone yang penakut nak hold responsibility and tak tau nak kasi commitment. To gurls, if your boyfie always says he lurves you but never wanted to take responsibility, DUMP HIM! Seriously.

 Anak-anak tuh indicate keluarga bahagia? Yes, definitely maybe. Anak-anak tuh rezeki from Allah S.W.T. Any married couple nak anak. Either late or early, they do want kids. Ada yang nak anak lambat sebab family planning. But still nak juga anak kan. Anak-anak is the married couple prove of love. Even if ada married couple yang dah divorce, anak-anak yang tinggal tuh proves that they were once loved each other. But now, yeah, some no-brain-only-know-to-play go play and play and then go baby dumping. Seriously just knock their heads with baseball bat. Dumping innocent babies in drain and everywhere.

Maturity or Ma-Tua-Retis

Ada orang akan cakap "Ko nih tak matured la... maen2 je keje", "Euw, sangat tak matured perangai dier". But how do you actually define matured cause benda-benda nih sangat random maksud dia. Well, ( according to HERE ), I prefer the second definition which is full development; perfected condition. Simple right? Tak adalah susah sangat nak faham. Kalau dalam Bahasa Melayu, Perkembangan penuh, Keadaan yang telah sempurna. Kalau tak faham juga, sila masuk kelas Bahasa Kebangsaan A/B ya! 

Well, this is the way I see what maturity is. I'm not a psychologist, biologist, or even human development expert. I'm just an AWESOMEly ordinary guy who live an AWESOME life. Maturity is the term that is used to show that something or someone - in this contact - Human - have grow from an infant to an adult. That is the physical maturity. But there's also mind maturity. Something to do with their thinking style. According to Islam, maturity or famously known as Mumayyiz is the period where he can differ bad or good. 

Me? I admit. I don't really act like a matured guy 24/7. There's time for maturity and there's time to be a "fool". I only act matured when the time needs it. But if not, I'll just go crazy and go hanky panky. To me, maturity is kind of sakit kepala. You can't do this, you can't do that. Seating on the chair, surping hot mocha. Even if you stand up, you have to stand like mannequin. That's is soooooo not me. I always imagine matured like people who so serious in everything.

Just be matured when the time needs. Like when your friends ask for your opinion, when they share their problems, or more important is in your study. Don't suka-suka hati ponteng kelas and didn't do your assignment. and the most  important, be matured in your Deen. Seriously, don't play-play with your religion or even other people religion. It's not a ball that you can kick. Respect their religion. Even Rasulullah S.A.W. could respect other religions during his time, so why not us?

Well, this is only my view or thoughts about maturity. but what is Ma-Tua-Retis? Ma-Tua-Retis is matured in their age or in simple word - TUA or old - but their mind is kinda kanak-kanak ribena. Retis means artist but that doesn't mean anything here. It's just a word decoration. So, be matured when the time needs and don't be a Ma-Tua-Retis.