Ada orang akan cakap "Ko nih tak matured la... maen2 je keje", "Euw, sangat tak matured perangai dier". But how do you actually define matured cause benda-benda nih sangat random maksud dia. Well, ( according to HERE ), I prefer the second definition which is full development; perfected condition. Simple right? Tak adalah susah sangat nak faham. Kalau dalam Bahasa Melayu, Perkembangan penuh, Keadaan yang telah sempurna. Kalau tak faham juga, sila masuk kelas Bahasa Kebangsaan A/B ya!
Well, this is the way I see what maturity is. I'm not a psychologist, biologist, or even human development expert. I'm just an AWESOMEly ordinary guy who live an AWESOME life. Maturity is the term that is used to show that something or someone - in this contact - Human - have grow from an infant to an adult. That is the physical maturity. But there's also mind maturity. Something to do with their thinking style. According to Islam, maturity or famously known as Mumayyiz is the period where he can differ bad or good.
Me? I admit. I don't really act like a matured guy 24/7. There's time for maturity and there's time to be a "fool". I only act matured when the time needs it. But if not, I'll just go crazy and go hanky panky. To me, maturity is kind of sakit kepala. You can't do this, you can't do that. Seating on the chair, surping hot mocha. Even if you stand up, you have to stand like mannequin. That's is soooooo not me. I always imagine matured like people who so serious in everything.
Just be matured when the time needs. Like when your friends ask for your opinion, when they share their problems, or more important is in your study. Don't suka-suka hati ponteng kelas and didn't do your assignment. and the most important, be matured in your Deen. Seriously, don't play-play with your religion or even other people religion. It's not a ball that you can kick. Respect their religion. Even Rasulullah S.A.W. could respect other religions during his time, so why not us?
Well, this is only my view or thoughts about maturity. but what is Ma-Tua-Retis? Ma-Tua-Retis is matured in their age or in simple word - TUA or old - but their mind is kinda kanak-kanak ribena. Retis means artist but that doesn't mean anything here. It's just a word decoration. So, be matured when the time needs and don't be a Ma-Tua-Retis.
