Happy Family?

How do people define “Happy Family”? Husband and wife? Family yang ada banyak anak? Suami isteri yang tak pernah gaduh, yang asyik 24/7 loving couple ja? Benda nih is something subjective. Lain orang lain dia punya definition. My definition? What I picture of Happy Family is … erm, how to put this. To me, it doesn’t matter if the couple have many children or a single child or even no child at all. But of course, anak-anak tuh pengikat family. Walaupun ada anak yang perangai macam anak haram, dia still anak dalam family tuh. 

Husband and wife and yang loving couple 24/7 and tak gaduh, to me is not a Happy Family. IMPOSSIBLE for a couple untuk tak gaduh. Sometime, arguing could be a method to bond. Not that I’m saying you should gaduh for like everytime. But hey, loving 24/7 without arguing, how you gonna appreciate your mate? To girlfriend and boyfriend that always gaduh, tak payah nak couple-couple. Couple tuh untuk someone yang penakut nak hold responsibility and tak tau nak kasi commitment. To gurls, if your boyfie always says he lurves you but never wanted to take responsibility, DUMP HIM! Seriously.

 Anak-anak tuh indicate keluarga bahagia? Yes, definitely maybe. Anak-anak tuh rezeki from Allah S.W.T. Any married couple nak anak. Either late or early, they do want kids. Ada yang nak anak lambat sebab family planning. But still nak juga anak kan. Anak-anak is the married couple prove of love. Even if ada married couple yang dah divorce, anak-anak yang tinggal tuh proves that they were once loved each other. But now, yeah, some no-brain-only-know-to-play go play and play and then go baby dumping. Seriously just knock their heads with baseball bat. Dumping innocent babies in drain and everywhere.

Maturity or Ma-Tua-Retis

Ada orang akan cakap "Ko nih tak matured la... maen2 je keje", "Euw, sangat tak matured perangai dier". But how do you actually define matured cause benda-benda nih sangat random maksud dia. Well, ( according to HERE ), I prefer the second definition which is full development; perfected condition. Simple right? Tak adalah susah sangat nak faham. Kalau dalam Bahasa Melayu, Perkembangan penuh, Keadaan yang telah sempurna. Kalau tak faham juga, sila masuk kelas Bahasa Kebangsaan A/B ya! 

Well, this is the way I see what maturity is. I'm not a psychologist, biologist, or even human development expert. I'm just an AWESOMEly ordinary guy who live an AWESOME life. Maturity is the term that is used to show that something or someone - in this contact - Human - have grow from an infant to an adult. That is the physical maturity. But there's also mind maturity. Something to do with their thinking style. According to Islam, maturity or famously known as Mumayyiz is the period where he can differ bad or good. 

Me? I admit. I don't really act like a matured guy 24/7. There's time for maturity and there's time to be a "fool". I only act matured when the time needs it. But if not, I'll just go crazy and go hanky panky. To me, maturity is kind of sakit kepala. You can't do this, you can't do that. Seating on the chair, surping hot mocha. Even if you stand up, you have to stand like mannequin. That's is soooooo not me. I always imagine matured like people who so serious in everything.

Just be matured when the time needs. Like when your friends ask for your opinion, when they share their problems, or more important is in your study. Don't suka-suka hati ponteng kelas and didn't do your assignment. and the most  important, be matured in your Deen. Seriously, don't play-play with your religion or even other people religion. It's not a ball that you can kick. Respect their religion. Even Rasulullah S.A.W. could respect other religions during his time, so why not us?

Well, this is only my view or thoughts about maturity. but what is Ma-Tua-Retis? Ma-Tua-Retis is matured in their age or in simple word - TUA or old - but their mind is kinda kanak-kanak ribena. Retis means artist but that doesn't mean anything here. It's just a word decoration. So, be matured when the time needs and don't be a Ma-Tua-Retis.

JEALOUSea

"Jealous-nya dia bawa kereta besar."

"Jealous-lah tuh tak dapat empat rata"

"Jealous-nya dengan budak alim tuh"

Biasa dengar ayat-ayat dekat atas tuh? Kita pun selalu cakap benda-benda macam tuh. Boleh kata, semua benda kita nak jealous dengan orang lain. Orang ada tu, kita nak tu, Orang ada ni, kita nak ni. That's human nature to be jealous of something or someone. Basically, jealous is feeling resentment against someone because of that person's rivalry, success, or advantages (taken from HERE). Okai, I guess that explain jealous. So jealous could be conjure in positive or negative ways. Positive jealousy is the kind that makes you want to work harder and strive for the better. Negative jealousy could be in the way that when you jealous of something, you react with the bad reaction such as destroying that person's achievement.

Kenapa tiba-tiba entry pasal JEALOUSea? Well, tadi I went to a class and suddenly ustaz tuh cakap pasal jealous. Actually he talked about husband and wife, but I thought about other things. I do have JEALOUSea towards many things especially my friends. I'm jealous with my DEARest that are could be fashionable. I'm jealous with my friend that could be in the way of deen 24/7. I'm jealous with my friends who tweet about religion 24/7. I'm jealous with my friends who get good pointer for their studies. I'm jealous with my friends who can drive. I'm jealous with my friends that could speak Arabic and British accent.

See? If I wanted to list semua my JEALOUSea, it would be like countless pages. Now you know why I spelled JEALOUSea with "Sea" in the end instead of "Sy". Sea of Jealousy. Anyway, being jealous of something is normal for human but how you conjure or express your jealousy that matter. Please DON'T DO STUPID THINGS if you are jealous of someone.

D way I see WWE

 

I've always been watching WWE - sejak dari zaman WWF lagi. But then, what do you see in it? Is it just a show that people punch their opponent? Bashing your opponent? Throw your opponent? People get pin down and get 3 counts? Well, if you are seeing WWE like this, you just seeing one angle of it. Try to change your perspective. Bukan tukar perspective tengok body part eh. Aku tampar juga kejap lagi. hehe.

What I admire in WWE is their social service or community service - and also for the part that some of the wrestler have AWESOME muscle body. One of it that interest me is they anti-bully project. "Don't be a bully...be a STAR" It just caught me. Well, imagine this, a big guy plus lots of strength telling you not to be a bully. Are getting what I mean? No? Nevermind. Go to the web and checkit dout yourself!

Click here for their Facebook page.

Click here for the photos and videos.

and also...an article about WWE Superstar David Otunga and WWE Diva Natalya.

"Embrace those thing that make you different" - Triple H

Another project that WWE did is regarding with female murderer - the breast cancer. Well, maybe whose watching or have watched, WWE Nights of Champion on September 16th - kalau tak salah lah kan date dia, you'll see John Cena in black & pink rather than his usual green gear. This is in support, together with Susan G. Komen, in fighting breast cancer. The words "Rise Above Cancer"- rather than his usual "Rise Above Hate" - was kinda like woah me. Anyway, checkit dout the following link for this project.

Click here ... "WWE and John Cena go pink with Susan G. Komen for the Cure"

Click here (and if you want to know more about breast cancer) Susan G. Komen

Cena go PINK!

Cena right before his match with CM Punk at Night of Champions

Another thing that I guess I don't have to tell you bout it but I just couldn't stop amaze by it even though other people may see it as little tings. It's how they honour the troops - US Millitary. How they honour the people who's been protecting their country. All Cenation knows how John Cena honour the troops. You can see in Cena's match where he always go to his in-uniform fan. Well, not forgetting other WWE Superstar Kofi Kingston, CM Punk, Big Show and many others to name.

Click here for the article

Kofi Kingston in a chopper.